Friday, July 15, 2016

Whirlwind- Insights from Week 1


Whew~ Week 1 has FLOWN by with a whirlwind of activities.  Of course, I suppose it's somewhat normal to feel like you've never accomplished enough, even though every day has been one task after another from 6:30am-12:00am.  I'll try to summarize the highlights of the week pretty quickly...


Nela and Sebastian

Wednesday, July 6th: 

Travel day. No issues. Smooth & easy. Got through customs with no major problems. They were a little leery of all my computer equipment that I had to bring in order to be able to work as a remote employee, but overall... smooth sailing. :) Our adopted Peruvian family surprised us at the airport and was waiting for us with a sign and big smiles. This was SUCH a nice treat! They are the absolute best!!!

Cafe A Bistro... My new home away from home



Thursday, July 7th: 

Met up with our BFF Ashton at his ridiculously delicious restaurant, Cafe A Bistro. Ashton has been the absolute epitome of the word "Godsend"! Seriously. He has stepped up to help in too many ways to list. He's offered to share his office space with me for as long as I need it, has allowed me to install a faster internet speed in his office, chauffeured us around, given countless insights & advice... and the list goes on... and on... and on.  I honestly don't think its humanly possible to ever repay him, so I can only hope that one day we can at least repay his kindness by helping someone else along that is in the beginning of a new adventure such as this. 

We walked around both Miraflores and Barranco looking for places to rent for HOURS. I wish I had my Fitbit on! I would have destroyed everyone in my Fitbit friends list. haha! It was a long, and very fulfilling day.

Friday, July 8th: 

Well, this was an interesting day! We had to go to both the Interpol Office and Migraciones (Immigration Office) in order to get our Carnet de Extranjerias (Peruvian Resident card for Foreigners). At the Interpol they took our finger prints, checked our teeth (?) and questioned us about identifying tattoos, etc. This part was pretty easy breezy. Next up though… Migraciones… This was an entirely different scenario… 


Well, fighting through this crowd was fun. Lol!

Little did we know this was the first day that Peruvians could apply for a Biometric Passport which would allow them to travel to Europe without a Visa. Apparently, a LOT of Peruvians want to travel to Europe, because it was PACKED!!!! There was a line that practically wrapped around the building. And, at the front of the line, everyone was pushing, yelling and raising their fists to the security guards that were guarding the entrance. It was a scene right out of a movie!  Somehow, our attorney's assistant had worked her way up front in the crowd prior to us getting there and was holding our spot in line. She was able to somehow speak to the guards and after waiting in the middle of the screaming, pushing, agitated crowd for about 15 minutes, a guard came out and "corralled" LJ & I through the door. (Yes, I know. We were absolutely the most hated people there).  Once we were inside, it was almost completely empty and we were in & out in 10 minutes. What an incredibly bizarre experience...


Saturday, July 9th:

This day consisted of a lot of boring logistics that I won’t bother walking through. Dealt with unforeseen challenges around getting my work office set up and working. Boring and time consuming. BUT! All is working great now! J J J


I hate you phone!



I REALLY FREAKING HATE YOU!!!!

Ok, we're all good now.


Sunday, July 10th: 

LJ’s birthday! YAY! We started the celebration Saturday night in the new Que Chicha with a group birthday song. Then took Sunday off to celebrate with the people that are paving the way for us. Nela and family made a nice big birthday feast of Lomo Saltado, Humitas, Jugo de Pina, Queso Fresco and fresh baked bread. 







Birthday brunch w/ Mama Nela & Family


Humitas

Lomo Saltado

The works


Afterward, we were off to meet Ashton and Yasbeth for dinner and drinks. We started at La Cabrera (Argentine Steakhouse), moved along to Barbarian, and ended up at Nuevo Mundo Draft Bar. The perfect celebration! 

Smiles and Laughs w/ the Birthday Boy
Hello Lover!
Beef! 

WowWowWeeWow


Mon-Thurs:  

My temporary APQC office is up and running. I’m still adjusting to some of the quirks that come with being a remote employee, but I’m starting to get into the flow of it. I'm finding the patience to work through the frustrations, and have come up with some “work-arounds” for the challenges that seem to arise on a consistent basis. I’ll be an IT whiz by the time this is all said and done. Well, maybe not. Haha! The upside is… my temporary office is only 1 block from the beach! Whoops... As LJ reminds me… it’s not a beach… it’s an Overlook of the ocean. Whatevs.


Counting my blessings

We’ve looked at a couple of restaurant spots. One is definitely out of the question. The other will take a little bit of work, but I think we can make it cute. And the price is definitely within what we are looking for. It may have some potential. J  More to look at tomorrow. We struggle to find the balance between "waiting for the right spot" and "just jump on it". I ask for constant guidance. I have no doubt we will make whatever feels right to us work. 





I guess that’s it for now. More soon! :) :)  I’m going to head out and walk down by the Beach / Overlook. J 

Leaving with a small "mish-mash" of pics from our first week:

Packed... to be moved in the future... maybe 

Packed for immediate travel

Alfredo's Que Chicha gets a Facelift

Mama Nela cutting potatoes to order for Salchipapas

Oh H-town. Don't hate me because I'm beautiful
I think these are my favorite trees ever. I love their trunks :)


One of the things I miss most (other than friends and family, of course)... Bottomless pots of coffee. By "cup of coffee" they really mean "cup" aka: 8 oz. By "cup", I mean at least 20 oz. "Keep the coffee refills coming"... Not here... *sigh*






Tuesday, June 28, 2016

Packing. Ugh.

Okay Okay Okay OKAY!  Yes, it's time to pack. It's past time to pack. We fly out one week from tomorrow, and I haven't packed one. single. thing.  *Sigh*  How am I ever going to do this? 






Thursday, June 9, 2016

How Did We Get Here? Part One

Just like that! We have a date!

July 6, 2016.

Eeeeeeek!



Some of you have requested that I capture the steps we are taking in order to prepare for this journey.  Of course, I am happy to oblige, and welcome anyone who may be planning to embark upon your own personal ‘expat’ experience to take pieces of what has worked for us so far and incorporate it into your own adventure.  Considering that for the last eight years I have worked for a company that researches and shares Best Practices and Benchmarking metrics, it is easy for me to get on board with this request.  So here it goes; the long and short of it…well…the first part anyway!   :-) 



Looking out from the Temple of the Condor at Machu Picchu


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Before I dive into the ‘whos’, the ‘hows’ and the ‘whats’ of our move, I should take a quick second to address the number one most often asked question we get.

“Why Lima?”

As mentioned above, we get asked this question a lot, and the answer can be summed up in two words:

Virgilio Martinez's Central, No. 4 on San Pellegrino's
Top 50 Best Restaurants in the World.
 Lima, Peru
The. Food.

Nestled amid the Andes Mountains and Amazon Rainforest, Lima has access to some of the most unique and freshest produce in the world, which creates an amazing food culture that locals are not only rightfully proud of, but ecstatic to be actively entrenched in.  To them, food is everything, and their ardor for showcasing Peru's beautiful country through their ingredients is endearingly apparent in nearly every conversation you have.  For LJ, the food hooked him right from the start.  However, for him to get me fully on board, he had to do a little more convincing. 




Step One: Convince your Wife. Fully Convince Her

Corvina Ceviche and Parihuela near the Mercado Surquillo
After we made the decision to set our sights on Peru we quickly jumped into action and began to develop a game plan.  And when I say 'we' I fully mean LJ jumped into action and began to develop a game plan.  I, on the other hand, scurried into my typical ‘denial mode’ method of operation: I completely ignored any and all attempts to talk about our decision.  It quickly became clear to LJ that he still had some convincing to do.  

Two years ago, we traveled to Peru on our Honeymoon.  Our initial goal, of course, was to visit Machu Picchu and the surrounding valleys.  (If you haven't been, this trip is a bucket list must!)  We rented a motorcycle and spent a little over 2 weeks exploring, eating, gallivanting, and generally soaking up the tiny rural villages speckled amongst the beautiful Peruvian countryside.  It was the most amazing, exquisitely picturesque honeymoon either of us ever could have hoped for.  It was the journey of a lifetime.

Machu Picchu
I’m fairly certain it was around this time that the thought of us one day moving to Peru initially nestled its seedling roots into the depths of LJ's ever-active brain.  Although I knew Peru would always be a magical place for us, I never imagined living there.  Let's face it, I am a Houston girl.  A sane person who has spent my entire life in a place that has always felt like home.   My family, my friends, my job, my life are all in Texas!








Ever the artist, LJ began to quickly incorporate little snippets into daily conversation in order to build the credibility of his whole little ‘moving to Lima’ idea.


Mijuna Wasi, our favorite restaurant in
Santa Teresa, Valle Sagrado, Peru
"Hey, did you know Lima is the 3rd largest city in the Americas?  Nearly twice the size of Houston, it’s not rural at all…its incredibly modern!”

“It says here that Peru currently has one of the fastest growing economies in the world!  Did you know that?"

"You've always loved living in Houston’s Heights neighborhood, right?  Well, there is a district in Lima called Barranco that is very similar: It’s a historic, artsy community, with a population focused on preserving the old culture and architecture of the city.  We should check it out. I think you’d love it!”

"You know what?  Lima has a huge surfing population, 
people come from all over the world to surf the Peruvian coast!  Wouldn't it be fun to do a surf-shack themed restaurant?"   

Trying to try Cuy (guinea pig) in Cusco.
Sorry guys. Can't get on board with this yet. Or ever.
Oh trust me.  There are plenty of these examples, but I think you get the idea.  Haha!

Try as he might, I still had a million questions for every fact he threw at me.
“Where would we live?  What kind of houses do they have there?”
“What about my family and friends?  How many of them do you think will actually come visit?”
“What about Winston?  What would we need to do to ensure he could go with us?”
“Would I feel safe?  What is the crime like there?”
I could go on for days with all the, ‘what abouts’, ‘what ifs’ and ‘what woulds’.  They traipsed about in my mind as if they were little ballerina fairies in a performance of Peter-Pan, drunk on the pixie dust of responsibility and worry.  Eventually, it became apparent that we would need to make another trip.  This time we would stay in Lima, and truly explore the livability of this historic city in order to determine whether this move was something we could feasibly do without ruining our marriage. 
Roads? Where we're going we don't need... roads. ;)


Step Two:  Trek back to Lima a Second Time

I can't stress enough how pivotal this second trip was to us.  Be it opportune luck, well thought-out prowess, shared passions or synchronous serendipity, the connections we made were nothing short of miraculous.  A dear friend of mine once told me to pay attention to the small, repeated signs and coincidences around you, as this is God trying to communicate directly with you.  I wish I could lay out for you the many fortuitous happenstances that came to pass during this second trip. However, doing so would turn this blog into a book, and that's a task for a later date. ;)  For now, it will have to suffice for me to say that the events which started as quick introductions led to suggestions which in turn led to friendships which led to connections and climatically led to a path so clearly and undeniably laid out that we knew this trip was divinely set in motion eons before we could even mutter the words "buen viaje".  By the time we boarded the plane back to Houston I knew it was only a matter of time before Peru would be our new home. 
The Hot Springs in Santa Teresa, Peru

Once we were back in the States, it was time to dig into the details so that our dream could really begin to take shape.  How much capital would we need?  What kind of food should we serve?  Should we open another food truck, or should it be a brick and mortar restaurant?  Are we absolutely certain we’ve fully explored all the areas of Lima that may be feasible?  What about work Visas, how do they work?  Should we ship all of our kitchenware over or buy everything once we get there?  As the questions kept climbing on top of one another, creating a mountain of trepidation higher than the mighty Machu Picchu itself, we packed our bags once again. 

Step Three:  trek back to lima… Third Time’s a Charm

Our Machu Picchu Tour Guide
Yes, you read that right.  I know it must seem like a third trip was a bit excessive.  In fact, at one point we had decided against it, figuring that we should save the expense of yet another trip; just get to Peru and let everything work itself out.  I mean, it had worked out for us so far, right?  Well, if we were just moving to a foreign country, that would be one thing, but we were moving to a foreign country and investing our lives savings (and then some) into a business…in a foreign country.   A country with a notoriously byzantine bureaucratic system of foreign rules, regulations and policies.   Thankfully we were advised to go ahead and make the third trip, and quickly realized not doing so would have been a vast and costly mistake indeed.  We found out some things this time regarding getting the business open that could have been fairly steep stumbling blocks had we just jumped in head first.  This third trip was really essential to our success in Peru.

Looking back, if we were to call the first trip 'Honeymoon Heaven', and the second trip 'Crystal Clear Kismet', the third one would be dubbed 'Restaurant R&D'.

Through targeted discussions with multiple people, both inside and outside the restaurant business, we received priceless advice on what to look for, what communities would work best for our concept, and what to incorporate that would help make our restaurant appealing both to locals and to fellow expats.  We finalized our company name and concept, explored local markets, and deepened previously made friendships.  We also hired Sergio Vargas, an immigration attorney who was referred to us on the "Living in Lima Expat Support" Facebook group.  Hiring Sergio was one of the best decisions we have made yet and brought with it the realization of this trip’s importance in the overall scheme. 

Wrangling your way through the ins and outs of starting a business from scratch can be quite overwhelming, even in your native country.  I have no doubt it would have been nearly impossible without Sergio's advice, insight, and experience.  Thanks to him, we will have our Carnet Extranjerias (Green Cards) ready when we get to Lima in July.  We already have our company set up and registered, bank accounts opened and we can immediately sign contracts upon arrival.  These are things that take a couple of months, minimum, and had we not gotten a jump start, we would have been spinning our wheels, caught up in bureaucratic red tape.  There are countless intricacies that we would not have known of or thought about on our own. 


Even with all that we have done, I realize this is only the beginning.  From here, it is full-speed ahead, and the countdown is on.  Still to come: purging, packing, shipping, purchasing, renting, opening, marketing... oh yes... this story has truly only just begun.  I'll do my best to capture it all and share pivotal lessons learned succinctly as possible.  So make sure and check back in.  It's sure to be an adventure. :) 




Sunday, May 15, 2016

It's Official... We're moving to Peru! :)

"Wait…What?? You’re moving?!? You can't!!! Why? When?? Where???"

 We’re moving to Lima.  Peru.  South America.

Traveling Peru's countryside on our honeymoon.


*****

My biggest regret in life came about seemingly ages ago, when I was a young, small town girl with sights set on nothing but finally finishing college and getting a real job. You see, although I wasn't a horrible college student... I wasn't exactly what you would call focused. Maybe it was youth, maybe it was those ever-present commitment issues, maybe it was the Gemini in me shining through, who knows?  

Whatever the case, after 4 years floundering around and being "in college" with no end in sight, the inevitable day came when the parentals called and  threw out phrases like ‘end of the line’ and ‘not paying your tuition much longer’.  Uh-oh. They finally went there. They played the "tuition" card. I knew it was seriously time to get my act together.  I sat down with a University of Houston course book, and the years of meandering amongst a random selection of courses came to an end. The decision was made: I would major in Business Management and Minor in Spanish. Woohoo!

Okay, okay... what is my point in this trip down Memory Lane? Well, it was during my time at U of H, if I had just had a little foresight, I could have traveled abroad in order to get credit for my Spanish minor. I had a friend who was going to Spain for that reason, and she tried, on several occasions, to talk me into it. But, I just couldn't comprehend it.  It seemed so out of my reach... too expensive, too far, too many unknowns. Ugh! So short-sighted of me. Dumb, dumb, dumb.  

And thus, this brings me back to the aforementioned biggest regret in life. Not taking that opportunity to expand my horizons and learn so much more than I ever could from a college textbook was a poor decision, reeking of childish fear. There is a reason people claim traveling is a life changing experience. And I passed it up without even a fleeting thought.



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Flash forward many, many years.

Our wedding day... Aug 9, 2014
It was our first year of marriage, and my husband and I had gotten into the fight of all fights. One of those that most often starts small and escalates... and escalates... until too much has been said, or screamed, or done and you stand looking at each other wondering what in the HELL have you got yourself into. Yeah... one of those fights. We were both exhausted, and we had no other choice but to take a breath and calm down. As is often the case with intense arguments of this nature, we realized how ridiculous we were both acting, and we started discussing what we wanted our marriage to be, our future to be, and our lives to be.

And that's when he threw it out there. He looked up from his shaking hands, and in a hesitant voice asked,

"What do you think about moving to Lima?"

Silence ensued, as I incredulously looked at him, waiting for the smallest sign of laughter. But, I quickly realized this was no joke.

"What?!!" I responded, completely caught off-guard. "Did you say move? To Lima? Peru??? For what??"

"To open a restaurant, of course". His voice was now more confident, he is a chef after all. 

"Are you CRAZY?!!"

The anger that had previously subsided threatened to resurface. Why, why, WHY does he expect MY life to completely change, just because I said, "I do"??? (I'm starting to remember how the fight started. haha!)

And then, suddenly the old regret from college flashed in my mind. Regret of the lost opportunity to take a risk, the lost opportunity to expand my horizons, and the lost opportunity to explore a new and exciting life.

I paused.

Caught my breath, shrugged my shoulders and said, 

"Okay. Sure, why not?"

And... there ya have it. More or less anyway. That's how it came about. I guess if I were to choose a hashtag for our decision, or at least my half of it, it would be #justjump. That's what we're doing after all. :) There are many reasons as to why Lima. And a few more steps involved in our move as well. Reasons and steps that I'll cover in a later blog. 

omg~ How do I let him talk me into this stuff?? haha! 

Am I excited about it? Sad? Nervous? Hopeful? Yes, yes, yes, yes. But, at the end of the day... you only live this Life once. And what is Life if not to love, learn, explore and grow. So, Peru... here we come. :) And, we're bringing Texas style BBQ with us! :)

Stay tuned for more posts about this crazy adventure of moving to a foreign country, opening a restaurant in a foreign country, and exploring what life may bring for a small town girl and a chef determined to chase his dreams. As we say in Texas, "Y'all come back now, ya hear?" :)